“Individuation. The process required for self-actualizing…I think she is in the thick of it. Whether you’re talking about friends or family, people you admire…or despise…you have to individuate your wants from theirs in order to honor your true self. It can be a thrilling…or painful process. But who wants to see or be a midnight blue black orchid that never fully blooms.”

~Grand Admiral Thrawn [Dr. J. SGHI (flipped source)]